Many hardships can sometimes be associated with growing old, and those hardships can become especially difficult during the holiday season. Seniors need love and support, and a special need exists for senior companionship during the holiday season.
Why Holidays Are Hard on Many Seniors
The year-end holidays are usually associated with being joyous and festive, but older adults can easily be left out of that cheer. For some, the season becomes a time of sadness and isolation – particularly if loved ones and family members are either far away or fail to notice that depressed state. If you think an elderly loved one is acting strange or withdrawn, they may be in need of senior companionship.
Numerous reasons exist for this occurrence:
- Too many memories. For someone who has lived for a long time, the holidays bring reminders of everyone they have lost along the way. Even for the happiest of seniors, this can make the holiday season a very bittersweet time.
- Living apart from friends and loved ones. Many seniors in nursing homes may feel disconnected from true friends and family, making the holidays feel lonely even if they are living among other seniors. Visit if you are able, and try to arrange for additional calls. Sending cards is another way to stay in touch and make them feel included.
- Living alone. Over 1/4 of American seniors live alone, and missing out on social interaction during the holidays can make anyone feel down.
- Mobility issues. Some seniors want to be able to engage in holiday cheer but are prevented due to mobility problems or other physical health impairments. They may be physically incapable of joining in.
- Financial burdens. When a senior is living on a fixed income, sometimes their financial state affects whether they can participate fully in the holidays. When they are unable to participate, their disappointment can add to the pain of old memories if they remember hosting parties or buying gifts they can no longer afford.